To-do lists can be intimidating, so be sure to include stuff to look forward to. That’s where the daily Gay Agenda comes in. Click through today’s suggestions that make scheduling your day less daunting.

• Talk it out. “The Sweet In-Between” LGBT Panel Discussion on gender identity, bullying and equal rights @ Georgia Perimeter College, 2 p.m.

• Modern master. The haunting lyricism of gay British writer Alan Hollinghurst (top photo) comes to town as he signs his long-awaited new novel, “The Stranger’s Child” @ Outwrite, 7:30 p.m.

• Smells like Halloween. Ruby Redd (bottom photo) turns her weekly Birdcage Bingo game on its ear with the Night of 1000 Ruby’s Look-A-Like Contest @ Mellow Mushroom, 8 p.m., and Goth Nite: The Resurrection @ Mary’s, 9 p.m.

• Wanna play? Texas Hold’em Poker @ Mixx, 7:15 p.m., Team Trivia @ Las Margaritas, 7:30 p.m., Crazy Bitch Bingo @ Joe’s, 8 p.m., and Trivia @ Woofs, 8 p.m.

• Belly up. Cubby Hole Blackout @ the Eagle, 10 p.m., HUMP @ Heretic, 10 p.m., Feathers & Flesh Burlesque Revue @ Blake’s, 11 p.m., and plenty of other choices on tonight’s whole bar calendar.

There are even more things to do on today’s Gay Agenda. View the full list on Project Q Atlanta’s interactive community calendar. You can also submit your own events.