Fridays are for butterflies. Break out of that weekday cocoon and fly your own meandering course into the weekend. Today’s diverse LGBT event calendar shows points of interest along the way.

• Game on. Softball Season Opener (top photo) with Decatur Women’s Sports League, 6 p.m., and the Chattahooche Doubles Tennis Classic (“The Hooch”) opens with Atlanta Team Tennis Association, 6:30 p.m.

• Castleberry Hill Art Walk. This first neighborhood gallery stroll of 2011 includes the SubScript 7 Art Exhibit @ BigHouse Gallery, 6:30 p.m.

• Embrace your inner bitch. Salon critic, hair guru and proud lesbian Tabatha Coffey (middle photo) reads and signs “It’s Not Really About The Hair” @ Outwrite, 7:30 p.m. Read our interview.

• Get out and stay out. Dragateria “Drag Me With A Spoon” ‘80s tribute @ Jungle, 9:30 p.m., Bedlam: Derelicte costume party is inspired by “Zoolander” @ My Sisters’ Room, 10 p.m., plus so many other places to be and people to see on Friday’s whole nightlife calendar.

• Life is a what? “Cabaret” the Musical (bottom photo) includes drag faves as the Kit-Kat Girls @ Jungle, 8 p.m., and “Seasons of Love” Cabaret, “Musical Icons,” benefits CHRIS Kids @ 14th Street Playhouse, 8 p.m. Read our “Seasons of Love” preview.

There are even more things to do on today’s Gay Agenda, including all of your weekly bar nights, community meetings and sports events. View the full list on Project Q Atlanta’s interactive community calendar. You can also submit your own events.