Category:  The Q

Three coming out stories, three shows of strength

Three coming out stories, three shows of strength

At 15 or 55, and whether everyone knows, no one know, or just your Mammaw is clueless to your secrets, it isn't easy to set yourself free. The Q has advice for three versions of strength.    READ MORE »

The Q: Three queer breakups, broken hearts, and moving on

The Q: Three queer breakups, broken hearts, and moving on

Breaking up is hard to do, and every split feels like the worst one, ever. A look at what you can do, and what you should avoid, as The Q tries to apply some solutions as salve.    READ MORE »

Whitney knew: Why loving yourself is the greatest queer love of all

Whitney knew: Why loving yourself is the greatest queer love of all

Fit to fat? Bad romance? D-I-V-O-R-C-E? Ask the Q why self respect and integrity are the keys to common problems queers often face without a solid foundation to make the right call.    READ MORE »

The Q: Jumping to conclusions that it’s all about you

The Q: Jumping to conclusions that it’s all about you

Whether you’re furious that your date had to cancel, your significant other is taking you for granted, or you’re just plain new to love, maybe it - gasp! - has nothing to do with you.    READ MORE »

Hot romance. True love. Should I stay or should I go?

Hot romance. True love. Should I stay or should I go?

Should you trade marriage for the passion of your once-a-year dalliance? A sure thing for a dream fulfilled? Are you in a rut or afraid to move forward? In both cases, Life Judge knows.
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The Q: What if I’m not Kinsey 6 ‘Gold Plated Gay-Gay’ any more?

The Q: What if I’m not Kinsey 6 ‘Gold Plated Gay-Gay’ any more?

Does sex with a transman remove my coveted 'gay' rating, and if so, am I not certified 'Gold' any more? And since everyone is getting married, should we? Life Judge knows.    READ MORE »

When that older man treating you like a sub is so not your daddy

When that older man treating you like a sub is so not your daddy

If an older man wants to make you princess and you're not the one, or when a so-called ‘friend’ chokes on his own HIV stigma, it's time to ask Life Judge. It's The Q.    READ MORE »

When a friend takes up dating your toxic ex

When a friend takes up dating your toxic ex

Whether your sweetie is too clingy but it's about you, or your P.O.S. ex is wreaking havoc and it's not, you ask The Q, and Life Judge helps spread the love.    READ MORE »

When your honey cheats on you but you ‘were on a break’

When your honey cheats on you but you ‘were on a break’

Whether you're a woman who's girlfriend stepped out on you and flaunted it all over town, or you're considering sleeping with your 'slut-puppy' boss, Life Judge has answers in The Q.    READ MORE »

How to cut the cord on those uniquely queer mommy issues

How to cut the cord on those uniquely queer mommy issues

Whether you're still parenting an ex after a break up, or a grown adult living and partying with mom into your 30s, you've got issues. Life Judge in The Q can clear the psychological underbrush.    READ MORE »

How to take the high road when two groomzillas don’t make a right

How to take the high road when two groomzillas don’t make a right

Whether you are head queen in charge of a gaggle of gabbing gay groomsmen, or the odd queer out from a high school clique, you have issues. Advice from Life Judge can help.    READ MORE »

My best friend’s girlfriend is dreaming about me naked. Help!

My best friend’s girlfriend is dreaming about me naked. Help!

So your bestie has a new love, only that new love is hitting on you bigtime. Which one do you talk to first, and how? You have issues. Advice from our Life Judge can help.    READ MORE »

 
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