By Mike Fleming | Aug 17, 2018 | 11:04 AM
Learning to say F#%*! what other people think, because worrying about someone's needs without regard to your own will never, ever get you where you want to go.
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By Mike Fleming | Aug 7, 2018 | 9:22 AM
Navigating the 'gay hug' gets tricky when you're culturally tuned into lots of personal space with friends. It gets really tricky when your boo doesn't have that affliction.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 27, 2018 | 10:09 AM
You're in love with two people in the same body. The sober one, and the substance abuser. And try as you might, you finally realize that you can’t love them out of addiction.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 19, 2018 | 12:24 PM
'I’m a pocket queer. Almost everything I can do for myself, of course, and I get insulted when others assume I’m helpless.' What he can and can't do in this week's advice column.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 11, 2018 | 4:44 PM
Full disclosure can be the right thing to do, but knowing the right timing and reasons to be upfront is trickier. Coming out gay, trans or poz in The Q advice column.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 9, 2018 | 8:58 AM
If you find yourself always doing what they want with no reciprocation or compromise for what you want, ever, you're not their partner. You're their pet. Here are some suggestions.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 29, 2018 | 11:12 AM
Cutting ties is never easy. Whether you've outgrown your bestie or can't figure out how to let a good person go, breaking up is oh-so hard to do. We have some queer advice.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 22, 2018 | 9:22 AM
Stonewall Weekend brings more to love in the LGBTQ-ATL. Events line up for you to knock down Friday through Sunday, from weekend-long festivals and annual summits and nightly parties.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 16, 2018 | 9:00 AM
You will never live up to your perception of the Seven Dwarves in the LGBTQ village, so stop comparing their social media highlight reels to your behind-the-scenes footage.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 8, 2018 | 11:16 AM
Whether it's longterm love, short term disagreements or queer life passing you by in the closet, everyone encounters moments when what they thought was, well, thought wrong. The Q offers advice.
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By Mike Fleming | May 25, 2018 | 8:32 AM
The hookup was all good. Now you're all in, but are they? What happens when three Q readers who want more find out that their objects of affection might just be hittin' it and quittin' it?
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By Mike Fleming | May 18, 2018 | 7:05 AM
The thrill of office-party hookups, interoffice flirting and longterm secret affairs between coworkers is gone when the jig is up, or the participants realize they don't see eye to eye on what's happening.
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By Mike Fleming | May 8, 2018 | 10:58 AM
Whether it's white lies to your boo, being perpetually late, or ditching a hookup, being true to your word is hard for some people. Level up by doing what you say and saying what you mean.
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By Mike Fleming | Apr 27, 2018 | 10:28 AM
Don't feed the fears, queers, The Q offers advice this week on facing the unknown, from your secret fetish fantasies to relationship commitment issues to your mind-numbingly boring rut.
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By Mike Fleming | Apr 23, 2018 | 11:27 AM
Bailing on difficult conversations? Adulting is hard. If you're ghosting instead of confronting, sabotaging yourself to avoid discussion, or missing out over having a chat, it's time to buck up.
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By Mike Fleming | Apr 15, 2018 | 9:58 AM
Tapping divergence as fuel, but knowing when discordant relationships are a good challenge to have, and when your differences are actually dealbreakers worth considering.
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By Mike Fleming | Apr 6, 2018 | 8:38 AM
Falling out of love sucks, but if you're blaming your problematic ex or your multiple, emotionless, complicated conquests for the trouble, you're completely missing the 'you' of it all.
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By Mike Fleming | Mar 30, 2018 | 9:01 AM
If you're flipping the sexual coin and messing with people's emotions, the two sides of your desire reveal more about you than the objects of your affection you're blaming.
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By Project Q Atlanta | Mar 24, 2018 | 10:42 AM
One queer slept with their best friend. Another wants to but can't bring it up. Then there's a convoluted LGBTQ daisy chain of affection with none of the fun part. Let's talk.
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By Mike Fleming | Mar 17, 2018 | 10:18 AM
Why are my fellow queers intent on setting me up with crazies and freaks – sorry, but these people are actually crazy and weird, they just are – who would never make a match for me.
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