By Mike Fleming | Feb 18, 2019 | 12:13 PM
Liberal guilt is a double-edged sword in the wrong hands. A mind toward equality and away from privilege is one thing. A misguided need to prove our woke-ness is entirely different.
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By Mike Fleming | Feb 11, 2019 | 7:55 AM
LGBTQ divorce rights and other people's salaries are strangling more than your wallet. While both are valid challenges, remedies you can pursue and those you desire say a lot about your character.
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By Mike Fleming | Feb 4, 2019 | 9:00 AM
Whether your ex hooked up with your therapist or your new friends actually hate you, you're asking the wrong questions. Here's the heart of what should really worry you.
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By Mike Fleming | Jan 29, 2019 | 8:25 AM
Vaguebooking for attention, inserting yourself into other people’s situations and talking behind people's backs are not good looks. Meet two attention-seeking queers you definitely don't want to be.
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By Mike Fleming | Jan 22, 2019 | 10:55 AM
When to stop being yourself because online isn't the place for all your business, and when to embrace it with your whole heart because life is too short to live anyone's life but your own.
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By Mike Fleming | Jan 15, 2019 | 9:48 AM
If it's not one thing, it's another. If you aren't allied and loving your queers your way, you're a queer hating your body knowing when size really, really matters. Confused? Let our advice column The Q help.
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By Mike Fleming | Jan 8, 2019 | 11:52 AM
To tell the truth is sometimes the hardest part of any challenge. Whether that's to the one you love, to yourself, or to potential partners. This week's advice column is here for all of it.
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By Mike Fleming | Dec 31, 2018 | 8:56 AM
"We’re in a sexual rut. I sample the sausage, he delivers it to the service entrance, we cook it, then we burp and roll over. The sameness of the sex is boring me to tears."
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By Mike Fleming | Dec 17, 2018 | 5:46 PM
That feel when "I'm old enough to be his dad, but I kinda want to be his daddy" runs headlong into "I think this older guy is hot, but I’m not sure how to get his attention."
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By Mike Fleming | Dec 10, 2018 | 9:49 AM
"I love sex. Show me a person, and right or wrong, I decide within milliseconds what they look like naked, whether or not I’d do them, and how it would be if I did."
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By Mike Fleming | Dec 3, 2018 | 8:48 AM
Short and… sweet? Just the because the answer is simple, don't mean the solution is as easy to execute. Quick answers to boo trouble that's easier said than done.
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By Mike Fleming | Nov 26, 2018 | 9:55 AM
The thrill of the chase often gets old as you do, and freezing your desires for the sake of others does too. Time to overcome preconceptions so you can move forward.
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By Mike Fleming | Nov 19, 2018 | 10:17 AM
In marriage matters, committing to one another is the first step, but far from the last. Issues arise no matter the stage of your relationship, and a little good advice can go a long way.
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By Mike Fleming | Nov 13, 2018 | 10:17 AM
Got a significant other so hot you're a jealous mess? Aging and letting yourself feel like a troll? Step 1 is to stop worrying, because wringing your hands compounds your issues.
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By Mike Fleming | Nov 5, 2018 | 9:49 AM
Some queer conundrums never get easier, whether you're big-kid fishing in a millennial pond, wanting commitment, or worried about HIV in the wrong way. Was it always this hard? Yes.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 29, 2018 | 11:54 AM
Even if you still love and respect each other, jumping hurdles is still part of any breakup. The Q meets two queer couples who are navigating their paths to a new normal.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 16, 2018 | 10:21 AM
Whether it’s a passive-aggressively abusive partner or a "mean-girl" friend who's just a bully, you deserve better. Here are some steps for freeing yourself from toxic relationships.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 11, 2018 | 1:48 PM
Letter writers into The Q, we're calling them Newbie and Unwoke, both find long-overdue teaching moments in equality and the joys of being out and proud on Pride Weekend.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 7, 2018 | 8:15 AM
Your dream lay isn't what you hoped, and making your fantasies actually happen could put you in danger of arrest or worse. Try applying a dose of reality to both.
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By Mike Fleming | Sep 29, 2018 | 10:14 AM
We live in a modern age of miracles. Until technology works against you. One minute, you’re growing apart from an old friend, another somebody else’s fiancé hits on you.
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