By Mike Fleming | Oct 16, 2018 | 10:21 AM
Whether it’s a passive-aggressively abusive partner or a "mean-girl" friend who's just a bully, you deserve better. Here are some steps for freeing yourself from toxic relationships.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 11, 2018 | 1:48 PM
Letter writers into The Q, we're calling them Newbie and Unwoke, both find long-overdue teaching moments in equality and the joys of being out and proud on Pride Weekend.
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By Mike Fleming | Oct 7, 2018 | 8:15 AM
Your dream lay isn't what you hoped, and making your fantasies actually happen could put you in danger of arrest or worse. Try applying a dose of reality to both.
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By Mike Fleming | Sep 29, 2018 | 10:14 AM
We live in a modern age of miracles. Until technology works against you. One minute, you’re growing apart from an old friend, another somebody else’s fiancé hits on you.
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By Mike Fleming | Sep 18, 2018 | 8:36 AM
Some problems take effort to unpack. Others are easy for everyone but you. Take these quick-hit LGBTQ conundrums.
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By Mike Fleming | Sep 13, 2018 | 10:55 AM
The Q advice column digs into two situations that illustrate just two ways that changing others is not only impossible but also not our job, and why we can't save everybody.
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By Mike Fleming | Sep 4, 2018 | 1:49 PM
When a friend’s possible drug use moves past indulgence and into excess, you may have a party monster on your hands, but you also have expectations and obligations to sort.
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By Mike Fleming | Aug 28, 2018 | 9:27 AM
Leaving affections in the past, or forgetting them as never-were, isn't as easy as for some people as others. Whether it's your a-hole ex or your unrequited love, it's time to let it go.
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By Mike Fleming | Aug 21, 2018 | 10:31 AM
Should you worry that you're moving on too quickly after a breakup? Do you think everybody gets laid more than you? Are your ties with friends in knots? Welcome to The Q.
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By Mike Fleming | Aug 17, 2018 | 11:04 AM
Learning to say F#%*! what other people think, because worrying about someone's needs without regard to your own will never, ever get you where you want to go.
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By Mike Fleming | Aug 7, 2018 | 9:22 AM
Navigating the 'gay hug' gets tricky when you're culturally tuned into lots of personal space with friends. It gets really tricky when your boo doesn't have that affliction.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 27, 2018 | 10:09 AM
You're in love with two people in the same body. The sober one, and the substance abuser. And try as you might, you finally realize that you can’t love them out of addiction.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 19, 2018 | 12:24 PM
'I’m a pocket queer. Almost everything I can do for myself, of course, and I get insulted when others assume I’m helpless.' What he can and can't do in this week's advice column.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 11, 2018 | 4:44 PM
Full disclosure can be the right thing to do, but knowing the right timing and reasons to be upfront is trickier. Coming out gay, trans or poz in The Q advice column.
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By Mike Fleming | Jul 9, 2018 | 8:58 AM
If you find yourself always doing what they want with no reciprocation or compromise for what you want, ever, you're not their partner. You're their pet. Here are some suggestions.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 29, 2018 | 11:12 AM
Cutting ties is never easy. Whether you've outgrown your bestie or can't figure out how to let a good person go, breaking up is oh-so hard to do. We have some queer advice.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 22, 2018 | 9:22 AM
Stonewall Weekend brings more to love in the LGBTQ-ATL. Events line up for you to knock down Friday through Sunday, from weekend-long festivals and annual summits and nightly parties.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 16, 2018 | 9:00 AM
You will never live up to your perception of the Seven Dwarves in the LGBTQ village, so stop comparing their social media highlight reels to your behind-the-scenes footage.
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By Mike Fleming | Jun 8, 2018 | 11:16 AM
Whether it's longterm love, short term disagreements or queer life passing you by in the closet, everyone encounters moments when what they thought was, well, thought wrong. The Q offers advice.
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By Mike Fleming | May 25, 2018 | 8:32 AM
The hookup was all good. Now you're all in, but are they? What happens when three Q readers who want more find out that their objects of affection might just be hittin' it and quittin' it?
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